Become a Gleam Founder! Launching July 1st.

We know the feeling – you log off “those” apps and feel worse. It’s almost as bad as being teased on the playground, like not being accepted for who you really are. 

Gleam is an online space—mobile and web-based— for gay, bi, trans, and queer (+) men to foster positive, uplifting connections around the interests, ideas, and activities that light you up. We have loads of features—chat, posting, virtual events, livestreaming—all to help you connect the way you want, on your terms.

Whether you’re into gaming, fashion, parenting, or, yes, sex, Gleam is the place to give and receive: give and receive friendship and support, give and receive ideas and inspiration, give and receive admiration and respect. Meet friends, get support, and perhaps even find that special someone ❤️

The ONLY digital space for GBTQ+ guys that’s about ✌️

Explore Hubs and Huddles

Hubs are spaces where Gleamers  connect about special topics or unique interests. 

Talk about dating challenges in Single AF, talk about gaming in The Nerdery, join a live group chat about mental health in Internal Affairs, or participate in a meditation circle in Soul.

In each Hub you can create or join a Huddle. Huddles are where conversations come to life—whether they are live in-app video or audio meeting, group chats, or playing a tabletop game—you have more opportunities to connect with real people who share your interests.

Welcome to Gleam Academy!

Here our members will find spaces where they can watch expert-led videos about issues that matter to you, with a specific focus on learning about mental health and well-being for GBTQ+ guys. New course material is uploaded each week, and members can participate in discussions sparked by the learning material in our curated spaces. 

Tailored to you!

With your own unique member profile, your customized dashboard, and feeds to keep you in the loop, you'll be able to stay up-to-date with all of the latest from Gleam and your fellow Gleamers. Post something about your fur baby. Access the latest course content. Learn more about upcoming Events. And stay tuned as we add more and more features, such as one-on-one and group coaching and expert support.

Real Connections, Real Safe

Gleam offers multiple ways to connect with fellow Gleamers – and it’s all more welcoming, uplifting, and safe than those other platforms.

Gleam is here to create an inclusive forum for you to shine on without worrying about hate, discrimination, or harassment - all to create a happier social media for everyone.

Our memberships are designed to ensure that people who join Gleam are serious. Explore our membership options!

Now available on
web and mobile!